Doc Love's The System (The Dating Dictionary) by Doc Love

Author:Doc Love [Doc Love]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Tags: Women & Dating
Publisher: Doc Love Club
Published: 2010-09-17T05:00:00+00:00

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EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE

"Marry someone with low mileage, a functioning human being with healthy Self-Esteem. They need less maintenance." - Marty Carr.

"There are no clean deals." - C. Shore.

"Marry someone who has more brains and less baggage than you do, so she can drag you up." - Doc Love.

Everyone who has had at least one relationship has been: 1. Hurt; 2. Slighted; 3. Rejected ... unless of course, you happen to be a Beautiful Woman. (Who gets rid of Elle or Claudia? Only a gay guy!)

If you are a super-victim, all three of these past emotional traumas live on in your psyche.

Depending on how deep and how often people have emotionally beaten you up, torn you down, or deprived you of good loving as a kid, you will have your share of emotional baggage. We all have it. And it's an awful thing to say, but some girls just have too much. I am truly sorry for what these women have endured, and I think the males who hurt them should be locked up. However, my job is to make sure both of you are happy, and as my cousin Fast Eddie would say, "You got to give me somethin' good to work wit' or it's no-go!"

How does emotional trauma happen between people who say that they love and respect each other? Simple - lots of people are thoughtless, and we don't pay attention to each other as much as we should. We are also mostly selfish, and we treat strangers better than our loved ones.

All of us do these things some of the time, but if you do them all of the time with Miss Right and vice-versa, romantic love will surely die. And the daily grind of living together doesn't help your cause because eventually you will drop your guard and Ms. Truelove will see you for who and what you really are.

Listen, you psych majors: if you are going to stay happily married your partner had better not have been too "wounded" as a kid or through too many destructive or abusive relationships as an adult. Why? Because when she gets mad at you, you will be fighting the "demons" of her past as well as her. And you'll be crazy to fight that war - you'll be sorely outnumbered.

The demon described above passes her repressed resentment- based on years of Mom's and men's transgressions against her - onto the turkey that falls for her. If you're not alert, this turkey might be you. It's tough enough to suck up eggs when you are guilty, but why suffer for her psycho mom's lack of parenting skills or her former Macho-Boy boyfriend's and Cro-Magnon husband's sins?

If you decide to stick with her, do you know what will happen? Eventually, she will lower your Interest level, like she did to the others before you, because she is not fun anymore. So before you make a choice. think of the millions of American men in loveless marriages who have no fun and no place to go.

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